A Journey of Joy and Consideration
Whether for the first time or the umpteenth time, it is still a miraculous experience. There are, however, various considerations each time you are blessed. Many Grandparents are unaware at the time, but it is also a consideration as to which side of the Maternal/Paternal spectrum you occupy. This entire article is about observation. I want to be clear, especially at this peak emotional time for the whole family, that intention does not always equal the best outcomes.
Navigating New Grandparenthood
Please take these ideas as just that—ideas for consideration, not a buzz kill. I have been a grandparent for over 30 years and have over a baseball team of Grands and Great Grands. I have written two books on Grandparents’ Rights and almost 500 articles on Caring Grandparents. I have made being a Good Grandparent a lifelong study and sharing these stories to help others not fall into hidden traps. All of this is to say that you should consider what I say here as being very intentional. My motto is and has always been what is in “The best interest of the Grandchild.” Please revisit my statement from the first paragraph “Intention does not always equal best outcomes.”